A computer has a wide variety of functions, ranging from an essential tool, to yes, toys (video games). In the manner we're both using it right now it's merely a communication device as opposed to a toy.
Tinder sluts being toys or not is debatable. If you're merely using them as a device to place your penis into, like an onahole, then I think it's fine to call them toys. However any other purpose, such as seeking a relationship, or a vessel in which to sew one's Aryan seed, makes them far more than mere toys.
Meanwhile Xboxs and footballs are literally sold in Toys R Us, unlike texts on philosophy.
I think the manner in which you're using the word toy here might be better phrased as escapism. All nonessential pursuits that distract one from actual reality could be dubbed escapism, and which form of escapism is superior to another is purely subjective.